Book called Food A Love Story, cover has Jim Gaffigan and a hot dog.

Food and laughing.  🍽️ 🤣 Two of my very favorite things in life.  If you share similar interests I have a book you need to read.

I had never heard of Jim Gaffigan but he’s my new favorite comedian.  Imagine Jerry Seinfeld going on about nothing but the intricacies of food and eating.  This book is totally hilarious and leaves you wondering how someone thinks up this great stuff.

With all the seriousness and stress so often involved with eating right, this book is a breath of fresh air that WILL cause you to laugh out loud.  We all need to lighten up a little and laugh more, don’t you think?

Sometimes when I don’t have a book on my reading list I go exploring for one.   My favorite place is at the bottom of the staircase of my library where the “New” books are stocked.  I know the precise section where the food/eating/nutrition/health/wellness/diet books are found and that’s where I check out what looks interesting.  That’s how I came across Food: A Love Story by Jim Gaffigan.  Not my usual type of reading but I like food and I like funny so I picked it up and am happy I did.

Jim writes about things like how prior to ranch dressing nobody had ever eaten a raw vegetable and how an outdoor barbecue to him just means “Let’s make the food more accessible to insects.”  He’s got some incredibly funny insight into everything from McDonald’s to Whole Foods Market to Donuts to Chinese food.  Just about anything to do with food takes on an entertaining spin in this book.

👍🏼👍🏼Two thumbs up from me- highly recommended for many giggle-out-loud moments.

The library is also an underused resource for education.  I have gone to several fascinating talks on topics like Wickford History and Wild Animal Rehabilitation– where they brought in live owls and falcons.  When I found out there was going to be a talk on Edible Wild Plants I signed right up.  This talk was given by Brett Mayette who is amazing and has reminded me that there is another side to food that I don’t know enough about.  As much as we have available to us, we have very low diversity in our diets compared to our ancestors who had to forage for food.  There are so many wild plants growing in abundance all around us that are nutrient-dense but we just don’t eat them because we are simply used to buying our food from a store.

Dandelion and violets.🌻 The idea of gathering nutritious foods right in my yard fascinates me.  I have a memory of my stepmother telling my sister and I that dandelions are edible and she proceeded to pluck one from the lawn and eat it as we stood by grossed out.  Well, apparently she knew exactly what she was talking about.  (this is the same woman who drinks the water in the bottom of the pot after steaming or boiling veggies.  Smart lady.)  And there is a whole world of healthy seaweed too– they are rich in  vitamins and trace minerals that can contribute to better health.  Brett left me making a major note-to-self to read up on edible wild plants and seaweeds!

According to the University of Maryland Medical Center, dandelions are full of vitamins A,B,C and D and a source of minerals such as iron, potassium and zinc.

Throughout May, dandelions and violets were everywhere in my yard.  I’ve tried a few.  🙂 Once I got over the initial fear of poisoning myself, I realized they taste pretty good.  The violets are sweet.  The dandelions have a slight honey taste.  And the greens are bitter but in a good way and are supposed to be super for digestion.  We don’t eat enough bitter anymore.  Plus it feels primal to pick food, which (to me) is cool.  I spent some time squatting down picking flowers and their leaves to make this little bowl and you know what?  It’s work.  It makes you appreciate how much effort is involved with food gathering.  It’s kind of frightening if you think about the idea of something happening to our food supply and everyone having to figure out how to hunt and gather their own food.

Which reminds me of Mr. Gaffigan (who does NOT like fruits, vegetables or seafood) talking about blueberry picking:  “Picking blueberries is not like picking pumpkins.  It’s not like, “Hey I got one.  Let’s get the hell out of here.”  With blueberries you are never done.  Even after three hours you tell yourself things like Uh, I got four.  We could make a muffin.  There’s got to be a machine to do this!”…  🙂

Dandelions and violets on salad greens.I am desperately hoping my blueberry bushes actually produce blueberries this year!

I can’t find a website for Brett Mayette but I did find this article from last August called Where the Wild Things Are if you’d like to learn more about him and his wild plant walks and cooking demos.  He’s clearly passionate for what he’s doing and you’ll catch that infectious energy just listening to him.

There is so much we can learn and benefit from by incorporating edible wild plants into our diets.  Thanks for all you do Brett!

 

 

Weight loss.  It’s the #1 response I hear when I ask:

“What are you hoping to get out of our visits together?”

It’s a fine goal and you’re not alone if you are frustrated with a weight issue and not a clue as to what to do about it.

Another question I like to ask is:  “How many years have you been dieting?” 

It’s not uncommon to hear people in their 30’s, 40’s, 50’s and 60’s realize they have been dieting more than half their lives. 🤯

Okay then…. It is time for a change! 😁

You probably know by now that “diets” don’t work, at least not long-term.  Anyone can find one of the zillions of low-calorie meal plans and follow it for a brief period.  Nobody can follow them for life.

The reason:  We all have a built-in survival mechanism called an appetite.  We need to eat for both nourishment and pleasure.  Trying to starve yourself with too little food, eating things you don’t like or eating in response to a schedule or plan rather than your hunger signals and preferences tends to backfire.  You learned this the hard way, right?!  But now what?  If diets aren’t the answer then what is?

The answer is simple and logical, yet different for everybody.

The bottom line is:

You need to change your specific behaviors and mindset that have gotten you where you are today.

This involves investigating your habits and then figuring out which changes you are willing to make to see results.

You also need to honestly ask yourself questions like:

  • Why do I want to lose weight?
  • What will change about my life when I do lose weight?
  • What won’t change about my life when I lose weight?
  • Is losing weight more important to me than my current lifestyle?

When some people really think about these questions, they realize that they aren’t ready to make changes and that is okay too.

Here is how you can get started on your weight loss journey:

#1:  Pinpoint your problem.   Get curious. Take a close look at the types of foods you eat, how much you eat, why you eat and when you eat.  Examine how you eat too.  Do you eat in a stressed-out state?  Do you eat every time you feel lonely? Bored? Do you eat when you sit down to watch television regardless of whether you are even hungry or not?  Are you telling yourself you aren’t allowed to eat certain foods that you love?  This can be eye-opening!  Really paying attention will uncover clues about eating behaviors that relate to your weight.  Once you identify where things are out of balance you can devise a plan consisting of  habit changes to implement.

#2:  Start with one realistic change.  You don’t have to do a complete diet overhaul.  That is what many “weight loss diets” are and a big reason nobody can follow them for long.  Instead, once you have identified your problem areas, pick out just one thing to change.  It is crucial that your plan consist of a change that you are honestly ready and willing to put into action.  I want you to feel excited about it, not dread it.  A lot of time I find that people want certain results but don’t want to put forth the work to get them.  There usually IS going to be some degree of struggle involved when you leave your comfort zone, so make sure that you’re good with whatever means you choose to get there.   You’ve got to be consistent and patient with your change as well. Remind yourself of your WHY every single day.  What are you doing this for?  Keep that reason fresh in your head.

I’m no psychologist but I do find myself playing one at work as an RD!  Weight problems are often surprisingly not so much about the food.  The issue is usually deeper than merely a matter of lousy willpower.  Excess weight can be seen as a symptom that something is out of balance in your life.  The real question is why are you eating too much or choosing too many of the wrong foods and not enough nourishing food?  Is there an underlying something in your life that needs to be changed?  This could be anything:  not getting enough sleep, being stuck in a job you hate, not getting out in nature or being too sedentary/not enough physical activity, etc.  You may find that once you start dealing with whatever is not right in your life that your eating and weight issues work themselves out naturally.

Nutrition education certainly comes into play too! That’s why having a Registered Dietitian on your side to help guide you with ideas of what to eat, new strategies to try, encouragement and accountability can be a huge factor in your weight loss success. 💗