Picture with delicious foods saying Ever notice how the foods you tell yourself you can't have are the same ones you feel you have no control around?

A mindset shift can lead to behavior change.

Acknowledge that you have the freedom to eat anything you want.

(Because… you do.๐Ÿคท)
โœณ๏ธ Unless you have an allergy!

Then, practice paying attention (โœจmindfulnessโœจ) and notice whether you really desire the food or not.

Once you give yourself full permission, over time, something shifts.

๐ŸŒŸFood loses its power over you.๐ŸŒŸ

The mindset of “forbidden” foods can make you crave them more, leading to overeating, feeling out of control and becoming trapped in an unhealthy cycle of restriction and bingeing.

Telling yourself you cannot have it DOES.NOT.WORK. ๐Ÿ™…โ€โ™€๏ธ

 

Instead, try these two steps:

 

Step 1: Allow all foods.

There are no good or bad foods. Yes, foods differ in their nutritional value, but any food can have a place in a balanced diet. We need to include foods that bring us vitamin P (pleasure!) and that truly leave us satisfied, along with those that are nutrient-dense. Once you realize that no food is off-limits, habituation eventually sets in and you won’t have such an intense response to those “forbidden” foods anymore.

 

Step 2: Ask yourself these 2 questions: “Do I really want this?” and “What quantity will make me feel good?”ย 

Pause and check in with yourself, keeping your deepest intentions and values in mind. This self-awareness is crucial and helps you make a mindful decision, avoiding mindless eating. Sometimes you might really want it… and other times you might choose not to have it. But you might want it tomorrow. Once you realize itโ€™s a choice and that you have complete freedom to decide, youโ€™ll find you’re back in control. You’ll notice that you don’t actually want certain foods as often as you thought or you don’t need as much of them as you thought. You will lose the all or nothing mentality and you’ll learn to enjoy an amount that feels good with no guilt.

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The key is a mindset shift– from restriction to freedom of choice. This can result in lasting, positive behavior change around eating.

It takes time and practice, but this approach can help you regain a healthy relationship with food.

You will get there.๐Ÿ’—

sign in fridge that says You're not hungry. You're bored. Shut the door.

๐Ÿ˜‚ It’s not a bad idea.

But you don’t need a sign in your fridge–

Instead, get in the habit of asking yourself if you’re truly hungry every time you wander into the kitchen looking for a distraction.

๐Ÿค” Is grabbing something to eat really what youโ€™re looking for?

๐Ÿค” Or is it just an urge that you can either sit with or deal with through an alternate action?

๐Ÿฅฑ Can you eat when you’re feeling bored? Of course you can!
But make it a mindful, conscious decision that you feel good about.

๐Ÿ”‘ The key to stopping any mindless behavior is mindfulness (aka paying attention).

Mindfulness is the opposite of autopilot. It generates self-awareness and autonomy. You always have a choice. Insert a pause right before automatically reaching for food. This pause is what gives you the power to act or not act in response to your thoughts and feelings.

Mindfulness comes up a lot in nutrition counseling.

(Balance too!) ๐Ÿ™‚

๐Ÿฅบ Many of my clients struggle with unwanted eating behaviors like grazing between meals when not hungry or eating after dinner out of habit.

Thereโ€™s nothing necessarily wrong with doing these thingsโ€ฆ

โžก๏ธ But for a lot of people, they donโ€™t feel like they are in control, these habits are getting in the way of their health and/or weight loss goalsโ€“ And that doesnโ€™t feel good to them.

๐Ÿ’ซ When it comes to changing eating habits, introducing mindfulness is essential.

It is the first step towards behavior change.

๐Ÿ‘๏ธ All mindfulness really means is: PAYING ATTENTION.

Behavior changes canโ€™t happen without this.

You canโ€™t change what youโ€™re not noticing.

โธ๏ธ Pause before automatically reaching for food.

Check in with your body.
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Am I hungry? ๐Ÿค”
What am I feeling right now? ๐Ÿฅฑ
Do I really want to eat this? ๐Ÿคจ
What sounds good to my body right now? ๐Ÿง
How much of it do I need to feel the way I want to feel? ๐Ÿฅฐ
If Iโ€™m not hungry, what is it that my body is calling for? ๐Ÿคฏ

๐Ÿ’ซ Youโ€™re interrupting a habitual behavior by bringing in awareness and creating an opening for a different response.

The PAUSE is where mindfulness happens. ๐Ÿ‘€

And mindfulness is how change happens. ๐Ÿช„

girl brushing her teeth

Is brushing your teeth after dinner to prevent eating more food later in the evening a good tactic?

It depends…

๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿป Yes if you struggle with mindless snacking and eating out of boredom when you truly are not physically hungry and truly do not want to eat at night but can’t seem to break the habit.
โœ… Bonus tip: Floss too to really signal the end of eating for the day.

๐Ÿ‘Ž๐Ÿป No if you are trying to fight real hunger signals from your body. Maybe you had a light day of eating or your dinner was small. Or hey, maybe you’re just hungry– hunger isn’t always consistent day to day. It’s okay to be hungry later at night and it’s okay to have something to eat if you need it! ๐Ÿ’–

Personally, I’m in the habit of brushing my teeth shortly after dinner because I don’t typically get hungry later. BUT– there are days when, for whatever reason, I’m hungry. Rather than lie in bed feeling uncomfortable and unable to sleep, I’ll have a snack. And I’ll feel so much better! (And then I’ll brush my teeth again!)

Mug of ramen noodles with spinach, peas and peanut butter.

ย There are always ways to nutritionally improve any of your favorite foods– even ramen!

๐Ÿœ Tips to Making a Healthier, Balanced Ramen Noodle Soup:

๐Ÿค๐Ÿซ˜ Add a protein source like chicken, tofu, tempeh, edamame, shrimp or hard boiled eggs. Consider black beans, chickpeas, lentils, cannellini beans or peas tooโ€“ while these aren’t quite as high in protein, they still provide health promoting plant-based protein plus the benefits of fiber.

๐Ÿฅฌ๐Ÿ„ Mix in some frozen spinach for antioxidants and additional vitamins, minerals and fiber. Thaw first by rinsing in a colanderโ€“ or add it frozen to your hot soup to cool it quicker. Try cauliflower rice, peppers, mushrooms, carrots or mixed veggies for additional nutrients.

๐Ÿฅ„๐Ÿฅœ Stir in a big spoonful of peanut butter, almond butter, cashew butter or sunflower seed butter for healthy fats and satietyโ€“ this makes your soup creamier and absolutely delicious.

๐Ÿง‚๐Ÿค Use less of the seasoning packet if youโ€™re looking to reduce sodium in your diet. Ramen seasonings vary in sodium content so check your label. If itโ€™s got 20% or more of the recommended daily value itโ€™s considered high-sodium. You can still use the whole packet; itโ€™s just smart to be aware of how many high-sodium foods youโ€™re eating over the course of your day.

๐Ÿ”Ž ๐Ÿ‘€ Read the ingredients to see what youโ€™re getting. I like the Lotus brand that makes ramen from whole grains like brown rice, millet and buckwheat vs enriched wheat flour and oil, so you get a little more fiber…

Rice ramen noodle packet by Lotus FoodsNutrition facts panel for Lotus Foods ramen noodles.

๐Ÿคซ Theyโ€™re at Job Lot now for $1!

ย Remember: Protein, fat and fiber help keep you full longer. If satiety is a goal, add these to your carb-rich meals and snacks to turn down your hunger hormones.

     

    Woman peeking into an open door with the words: "Me looking at the cookies in the pantry after I said I would eat healthy."

    If this is you, hereโ€™s my advice:

    ๐Ÿช Stop telling yourself you can’t have something you really want. (You’ll only want it more!) What we resist persists. Give yourself full permission to eat it and it will lose its power over you. Food freedom and a healthy relationship with eating may take a little time but you will get there.

    ๐Ÿช Make sure you nourish your body with nutritious, wholesome, satiating foods FIRST. It’s crucial that you take care of yourself with the right foods so you’ll be satisfied with a moderate portion of a treat AFTER. When you’re truly hungry, going for the cookies straight away is likely going to lead to overeating them and not feeling so great.

    ๐Ÿช Examine your definition of the word healthy. Individual foods are not healthy or unhealthy. Not eating a cookie doesnโ€™t make you healthy just as eating a cookie does not make you unhealthy. Health is about much more than what you eat. Look at the bigger picture and how that cookie fits into your diet and life as a whole.

    ๐Ÿช Ask yourself if you really want them! Sometimes we tend to eat something just because it’s there. It will be there tomorrow too. Remind yourself of this. If you really want it, pause and ask yourself how much of it you need to feel satisfied. Make a mindful decision, enjoy your choice, feel good about it and carry on with your day.

     

    If sugar feels addictive, there is usually something else going on: Read about it here.

    You don’t need to eliminate every gram of sugar in your diet to reach your health goals, however there are guidelines for how much added sugar you should be eating: Check out it here.

     

    Cookies with the quote: The best way to stop craving sugar is to stop telling yourself you can't have sugar.

     

     

    quiz with numerous foods like peanut butter and avocados asking which of these is fattening?

    Answer: NONE of them! Read on for an explanation…

     

    “Is ____________ fattening?”

    Common question!
    ๐Ÿคฅ But– It’s a myth that an individual food is “fattening.”

    Some foods contain more fat, carbohydrates or calories than others. Also, foods vary in nutritional value:

    ๐Ÿฅ‘๐Ÿฅœ A food high in fat (ex. avocado, nuts, peanut butter) can also contain beneficial nutrients making it a healthy addition to your diet. High-fat does not equal bad or fattening.

    ๐ŸŒ๐Ÿ  A food high in carbs (ex. banana, sweet potato) can also contain beneficial nutrients making it a healthy addition to your diet. High-carb does not equal bad or fattening.

    ๐Ÿช Some foods are more ultra-processed and have fewer beneficial nutrients (ex. cookies, brownies, ice-cream). These foods taste delicious and provide enjoyment! Lower-nutrient does not equal bad or fattening.

    ย While it’s smart to be aware of where different types of foods fall on the nutrition spectrum, you can still incorporate ANY kind of food into your diet without it being “fattening.”

     

    Meme about how individual foods are not fattening or not. It's more about how taking in more calories than your body needs over a period of time that causes weight gain.

    ๐Ÿ’ซ Change your mindset from:
    “Is it fattening?”
    to…
    “How does this food fit into my day of eating as a whole?” ๐Ÿ’—

     

    girl on yoga mat with a quote about how you won't get fat eating one bad meal and you won't get lean eating one healthy meal. You are what you repeatedly do.

    Try this: Hello (insert what you are feeling). I think you are trying to tell me: (fill in the blank.)

    Feeling out of control with emotional eating? ๐Ÿ˜ฉ

    First of all, eating for emotional reasons is OK! ๐Ÿค—

    But for some people, it can become problematic because it becomes an automatic, unwanted response to feeling something uncomfortable.

    There IS a way to break out of this!

    Try this:

    โœจ Rather than feel something and immediately react with eating, take a moment to notice and name what you are feeling:

    Ex) Sad, tired, bored, stressed.

    โœจ Identifying your emotion inserts a PAUSE between the trigger (the emotion) and the response (eating).

    โœจ Hitting the pause button gives you the space and the freedom to make a decision.

    ๐Ÿคท๐Ÿปโ€โ™€๏ธ Maybe you want to eatโ€“ and thatโ€™s OK!

    Ex) Iโ€™m sad. (PAUSE) Iโ€™m going to make a cup of tea and enjoy a few chocolates because that is exactly what I need right now.

    ๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿป Eating becomes a conscious choice that doesnโ€™t leave you feeling out of control.

    ๐Ÿคท๐Ÿปโ€โ™‚๏ธ Or maybe you use the pause as an opportunity to choose an alternative action. After naming the feeling, ask yourself what it is trying to tell you.

    Ex) Iโ€™m tired. (PAUSE) Putting my feet up on the couch for 15 minutes will help me feel better.

    Iโ€™m bored. (PAUSE) Accomplishing a task on my household chore list will help me feel better.

    Iโ€™m stressed. (PAUSE) Calling my best friend will help me feel better.

    ๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿป Identifying and naming what you are feeling gives you the chance to step away from it and make the decision that will help you feel better….

    Maybe eating…. But maybe not.

    Lunch idea! ๐Ÿ˜ƒโžก๏ธ Make a BENTO BOX!

    Bento box with carrots, blueberries, cottage cheese, turkey, banana, wrap and lara bar.

    Bento Box with baby carrots, everything but the bagel cottage cheese, turkey slices, blueberries, banana, PB&J in sprouted grain wrap and a Lara Bar

    Bento Box Cheat Sheet

    Aim for variety & balance, not perfection:

    ๐ŸŽ๐Ÿฅ•๐Ÿ๐Ÿฅฆ FRUIT AND/OR VEGGIE
    (carrots, celery, bell peppers, broccoli, cauliflower, jicama, cucumber, tomatoes, radish, strawberries, kiwi, blueberries, pineapple, grapes, melon, mango, apple, orange, peach, plum, cherries, figs, dates, raisins, apricots)

    ๐Ÿฅš๐Ÿฅ‘๐Ÿฅœ๐Ÿง€ PROTEIN & FAT
    (cheese, nuts/nut butters, tuna, chicken, turkey, tofu, tempeh, avocado, yogurt, cottage cheese, hard boiled egg, jerky, edamame)

    ๐Ÿฅช๐Ÿš๐Ÿฟ๐Ÿซ“ CARBOHYDRATE
    (tortilla/wrap, whole-grain bread, popcorn, beans/bean salad, pasta/pasta salad, crackers, hummus, rice, potatoes, granola)

    ๐Ÿซ๐Ÿช๐Ÿต ๐Ÿ˜ ANYTHING ELSE THAT BRINGS YOU JOY!


    Soooo many great possible combos…

    Here are a few of my lunch boxes that I remembered to snap a photo of–

    There is a bit of overlap. ๐Ÿ˜… You’ll notice I have my go-tos :

     

    ย Chicken, cheese, brazil nuts, macadamia nuts, dried apricots, carrots, celery, Tahini Medjool Date Cookies & an apple:

    Bento box with tahini medjool date cookies, turkey, cheese, macadamia nuts, carrots, celery, dried apricots and an apple.ย 

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    Beef jerky, Laughing Cow Cheese, mixed nuts/seeds/coconut, apple, peanut butter, peppers, cucumbers & a couple of chocolates:

    Bento box with cucumber, peppers, apples, peanut butter, cheese, beef jerky, trail mix and chocolate.

     

    Turkey, Mary’s Gone Crackers, strawberries, tomatoes, carrots, celery & peanut butter:

    Bento box with turkey, crackers, peanut butter, strawberries, tomatoes, carrots and celery.

     

    Chomps meat stick, grapes, Babybel cheese, walnuts, wasabi almonds, Mary’s Gone Crackers, carrots, celery & peanut butter:

    Bento box with meat stick, cheese, grapes, crackers, carrots, celery, nuts and peanut butter.

     

    Tuna salad wrap, Babybel cheese, blueberries, blackberries, carrots, brazil nuts, macadamia nuts & dates:

    Bento box with tuna wrap, blueberries, blackberries, carrots, cheese, dates and nuts.

     

    Tempeh and guacamole in sprouted grain wrap, apple, carrots, cottage cheese, dried apricots & brazil nuts:

    Bento box with cottage cheese, tempeh and avocado wrap, apples, carrots and brazil nuts.

     

    Cottage cheese, grapes, carrots, celery, apples, oranges, Crunchmasters crackers, peanut butter & a TRUBAR & banana that I had for an afternoon snack:

    bento box full of veggies, fruits, cottage cheese, peanut butter, crackers, protein bar and banana

     

    Peanut butter, jelly and arugula in whole grain tortilla, orange, grapes, carrots & Babybel cheese:

    Bento box with peanut butter and jelly wrap, cheese, carrot, grapes and orange slices.


    Once you know the basic combo of foods to include for balance, you can easily build yourself a tasty, nutritious bento box from foods you (hopefully) have in your kitchen. Most require little to no prep time.

    Remember: Fruit/Veg, Protein/Fat, Carbohydrate & anything else you love that makes you look forward to lunchtime. ๐Ÿ’—

    Print your Bento Box Cheat Sheet here!

    Fun fact about me: I was vegan for over 12 years! ๐Ÿ˜ฒ

    Itโ€™s been more than 10 years now since I returned to being omnivorous, but I am supportive of anyone who chooses to follow a vegan diet and wants to learn how to do it in a healthy way. ๐Ÿ’“

    Here are a few important nutrients you want to ensure you are getting adequate amounts of in a vegan diet:

    โœ”๏ธ B12 (you will need a supplement)
    โœ”๏ธ Iron
    โœ”๏ธ Zinc
    โœ”๏ธ Omega-3 fatty acids
    โœ”๏ธ Protein
    โœ”๏ธ Calcium & D

    You may wonder… What do vegans eat?

    In a nutshell, anything not containing animal products. Vegans eat 100% plants!

    Here are a few examples of some balanced, nutrient-rich vegan breakfasts, lunches, dinners and snacks:

    List of vegan breakfast ideas

     

    list of vegan lunch ideas.

     

    List of vegan dinner ideas.

     

    List of vegan snack ideas.

    ๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿป Vegan does not necessarily equal healthier.

    There are high-nutrient vegan diets as well as low-nutrient vegan diets. ๐Ÿ˜Š

    (Just like there are high-nutrient omnivore diets and low-nutrient omnivore diets.)

    And just like with any way of eating…

    โœจVariety and balance are key!โœจ

    Bowl of popcorn.

    Food addiction is a highly controversial topic.

    Can you really be addicted to a specific food??
    ๐Ÿค”๐Ÿฐ๐Ÿช๐Ÿซ

    ๐Ÿฅจ Yes, food can FEEL addictive for many people.

    Itโ€™s easy to believe food can be addictive because it actually can activate our โ€˜feel-goodโ€™ brain receptorsโ€ฆ

    ๐ŸŽต๐Ÿถ๐Ÿšฒ๐ŸŒž But so can many other pleasant things in life like:

    Music, massage, exercise, being out in the sunlight and fresh air, looking at your dog or planning a fun weekend.

    ๐Ÿค— Food is actually supposed to make us feel good!

    So why can it feel like an addiction?

    โžก๏ธ Restriction and/or not allowing yourself to get pleasure from food. (aka Dieting!) ๐Ÿ˜ตโ€๐Ÿ’ซ

    Inadequate intake of carbohydrates, protein or fats can leave you with seriously intense food cravings.

    Addictive behaviors like binges occur as a result of deprivation.

    How to overcome these feelings of addiction?

    ๐Ÿด Stay nourished. This means ensuring you are eating ADEQUATE calories, a VARIETY of calories and a BALANCE of calories. Have a registered dietitian review your diet. You may need to establish a new routine of eating and/or change the types of foods youโ€™re eating.

    ๐Ÿซค Stop telling yourself you’re an addict. You’re only reinforcing your behavior when you take on a victim mentality. Instead, get curious. See yourself as someone who is learning how to eat in a healthier way. Look for the message and opportunity for change that’s behind your unwanted eating habits.

    ๐Ÿ˜ Normalize instead of moralize. Normalize the food you feel addicted to. Fit that food right into your day of balanced eating. See that food as neutral and not ‘bad’. Allow it! Give yourself permission to get enjoyment from it. It may mean incorporating those chips into a balanced lunch or having that cookie as dessert after a balanced dinner. Work towards seeing the addictive food as just another food choice in your diet.

    You CAN learn how to eat and enjoy the foods you feel addicted to in a way that you feel good about! ๐Ÿ’ž